Posted by ToKeepYourselfWarm08 | archived on Aug. 8, 2022, 11:57 p.m.
Let's talk about dominance and submission. And why professional, successful, intelligent women wanting to submit to dominance is extremely hot. Or wanting to be made to submit ;) What am I looking for? Some relief from a long stretch of (ongoing) single life with frustratingly little successful action. I imagine anything resulting from this post to be mainly physical (although I'm not against something more if there's a fit) as I feel there are usually better ways to find something more romantic and emotional than kinky Reddit hookups. Also explicitly not interested in long-term messaging before meeting, as that unfortunately does nothing for me. Why should you be interested in this? Well, as should be clear, I tend dominant in the bedroom - there's a primal thrill that blends with the usual sexual arousal when I'm in a dominant sexual situation. Amongst others, my sub-kinks (as it were) include improvised restraints and gags, orgasm control, light breathplay, soft punishment, rough sex, CNC and more. But if the woman submitting is also intelligent, professional and successful? I think there's little more satisfying than playing with someone like that and bending them to what I want: knowing they'll go back to being excellent at their job the next day, but will still have the memory distracting them of having been used as they wanted deep down; knowing they are fondly remembering it and waiting for the next time that they can let their inhibitions go and submit to be used as they're told. And if they happen to have a sore arse to remind them physically... well, worse things happen! I think that's all a very attractive proposition. Why might I be interested in you? Well if you fit the vague description above - intelligent or professional or successful (ideally at least two out of three) with a submissive streak - then I'm probably a bit interested! If I were to describe my very broad type, I'd say cute brunettes shorter than me, but that's a pretty simplistic view of people I've been attracted to. Few real musts - a roughly similar emotional age (so probably generally not more than 7 years either side); probably not more than curvy/thicc (rather than BBW or equivalent); no septum piercings, as I don't find them particularly attractive; and I tend not to find glasses particularly attractive either. The only hard physical requirement is you being of a size where I can effectively manhandle you! The other hard requirement is that you are willing to be communicative about how you feel safe - limits, safe words and aftercare requirements are all essential discussions. I'm happy teaching someone new to these kinds of things, or exploring with someone who's already tried a lot! And finally, a small bit about myself. 28, 5'11, \~85kg. White, brown haired, muddled non-descript Midland accent, moderately attractive and reasonably physically fit (can supply photos). Graduate from a respected university. DDF, triple vaxxed (for what it's worth in the times of Omicron variant whatever), can host for nearly everything (CNC involving desperate use of the word no can be tricky with housemates...). Based a little south of the river with good transport links. I hope the above has interested you if you've made it to the end! Feel free to message.