Posted by ToKeepYourselfWarm08 | archived on Jan. 17, 2024, 12:31 a.m.
The new year is a time for personal reflection (whilst recovering from the delightful excesses of the festive period). And I've been reflecting on what I like in a woman. Two key things come to mind. I like a woman who, in her public life, is strong, intelligent, and feminist. Who wants to succeed at her career. Who holds opinions on topics they think matter, and wants to discuss then sometimes. Who cares about self-improvement. Who gets frustrated with the unfair shit women still put up with. To use a slightly dated phrase, someone who isn't a shrinking violet. And then there's the flip side. I love it when women like this are submissive sexually. When they want to be dominated, treated roughly, called a good girl, restrained, manhandled, maybe deprecated or used (followed by appropriate aftercare of course). That is obviously my preferred type in the bedroom anyway, but the contrast between the strong public life and the submissive private life? I find something quite special in women balancing on that edge. If you think the above describes you and you'd be interested in exploring some more casual fun, please do message! Like most people, there are certain particular things I tend to find more physically attractive in others - long hair, brown hair, pixie cuts, a nice bum, wearing Converse or really white trainers amongst them - but they're at most only guidelines. Attraction is a far more complex thing than just the physical. The only two things I would have trouble with are people taller than me, and septum piercings (can't explain the latter...). To clarify, I'm not looking for a relationship, although I'm not averse to something developing. Instead, my current goal is fun meets with interesting people. If we click and want to make it a regular thing, I'm open to that, as sex gets better with your experience with a partner. But let's not rule anything out. And finally, a bit about me. 30, 5'11, ~80kg (perhaps a little more currently with the Christmas cheese not quite worked off). White, brown-haired, blue-eyed, tolerably fit, relatively attractive (in a cute rather than hot way I suspect). Single, DDF, can host nearish to Brixton, sarcastic but kind-hearted. Working a job I care about, but trying not to let it overwhelm my interests and hobbies. And plenty more I could say, but six long paragraphs is more than enough!