Posted by legranddivisions | archived on Aug. 17, 2023, 4:06 p.m. | located in London, GB
Nobody would describe me as a shy guy, except for when it comes to sex and romance. My friends would say I'm always the biggest chatterbox in the room until sex and relationships come up in conversation. Due to my own relative lack of experience and the fact that I was constantly seen as being "mature for my age", I never felt comfortable talking about desires, sex, relationships, etc. even with my closest friends. I never had that stereotypical "oh man, she's so hot" kind of "lad" conversation and I certainly never had a female friend who I felt comfortable talking about these things with. If a friend brought up someone they thought was hot or a fun date they had, I would listen politely before trying to steer the conversation onto travel, music, sports, etc. But I want this to change. I'd love to meet fellow Londoners who will help me open up about these things. I'm not a virgin but so far in my life, I've been with one woman. While I can count my number of sexual interactions of one hand, meeting this woman via Reddit did help me start to feel slightly more comfortable in my own skin and I'd really like to meet someone here in London who is similarly open minded and not super shy when it comes to sex. I know this post is fairly open ended and not focused on particular sex acts, but I'm most interested in the connection and then letting things go from there. I can host in central/north London but I'm also quite open to meeting at a pub or park first just like normal friends would. I would describe myself as bicurious, leaning straight but I am open minded. Just because I'm shy when it comes to sex doesn't mean that I don't have a creative, kinky imagination. My order of preference for "mentors/friends" is listed below, but I don't expect a ton of replies so it's probably not relevant. \- MF couples \- single women (but those don't exist here, right?) \- single men Anybody interested in this special arrangement?