Posted by legranddivisions | archived on Aug. 10, 2023, 6:06 a.m. | located in Lexington, US
I am a man of contradictions. Sure, you could say that "switch" is a better way to describe me, but I don't feel like that word truly does my fantasies justice. I personally believe that everybody's kinks and fantasies are a reflection of their life and their experiences. Sex cannot be fully separated from the rest of our lives and therefore the rest of our lives and the society that we live in cannot be separated from our kinks. On one hand, I am a man who people look to in my career. I don't enjoy bragging but nine times out of ten, I am the smartest person in the room and everybody knows it. The education system has showered me with praise for as long as I can remember. Perhaps then, it is understandable that I have a long running desire to be taken down a few pegs. For once in my life, I want to be nothing. I want to let go of the pressures of being a "gifted one" and instead focus my attention simply on the pleasure of another person. The humiliation of being treated like nothing more than a slave has always turned me on because it is so different from how I am treated 99% of the time. My brief and limited experiences as a submissive partner have only wetted my appetite to dive further into this natural instinct. On the other hand, my dominant streak has bloomed over time. It never came naturally to me but an unexpected experience as a dominant partner showed a different side to me. That intelligence and creativity that has served me so well in my career path also seems to make me a surprisingly good dominant partner. I've slowly dropped any preconceived notions about what a dominant man is. I'm on my way to charting my own course as a dominant that is far away from the brute force hunk figure so often portrayed in our culture. Dominance and submission is ultimately about power and finding fun ways to symbolise that power. I enjoy the challenge of using every corner of my brain to bring these fictional power dynamics to life for the enjoyment of myself and my submissive. So, I am looking for a Londoner who is willing to help me explore either "side" of me. Put me in my natural place or help spur the next step in my development as a dominant. Your choice. Despite my enthusiasm for both, I am fairly inexperienced in all things sexual and kinky. I am turning to you so that we can build a safe space to explore these fantasies further. I am willing to host centrally but I can also travel as needed. Please note that I am currently out of the country and will not be returning until early next week. I will also only send pictures after a few days of chatting over Reddit. This isn't Tinder. We have a few days to discuss things before I return to London regardless so why race to get pictures? Let's take our time with everything, okay? Just send me something meaningful when you message me and I'll get back to you as soon as I can.