30 [M4F] #Central/SW London - Introverted, intellectual and adventurous guy looking for a connection launch

Posted by theMagnet93 | archived on June 24, 2023, 4:21 p.m.

Hello. I’ve recently reached the age of 30 (though don’t feel like it at all!) and decided to take a break from conventional dating apps (their algorithms seem to be all over the place nowadays) and try again here (open only to IRL meetings after chatting for a bit but not too long, not looking for pen pals). As described below I’m really open to anything from something casual to more serious. About me - I’m an introvert (INTJ, sometimes I get ISTJ) who works in finance. I like my job as it satisfying, intellectually stimulating and financially rewarding. - I live on my own in a tiny 1 bed apartment but luckily I’m able to avoid flatsharing with randoms which can be annoying :P - I do all of my activities on my own yet generally feel comfortable with this but wouldn’t mind doing some of them with another person. Hobbies/free time activities : - arthouse cinema (I have a Classic membership with Curzon - this can be a proof of my deep interest), - museums, art exhibitions (generally prefer contemporary art/design/street art), - theatres (but not musicals!) - travelling (over the last 2 years I’ve been to Estonia, Portugal, Cyprus, Denmark, Norway, Czechia, Spain, Latvia and currently I’m in Sweden), - books (personally almost all books I read are non-fiction though open to recommendations as the ones given by goodreads are not that good lol), - music, my music taste is quite peculiar but sometimes I’m able to find a good concert here in London (the less mainstream the better, I tend to listen a lot to non-English language music) - sportwise: gym, running, used to have some squash and fencing classes though definitely enjoyed the former much more, about to start yoga classes - Other stuff: I can also talk about politics, geography, current affairs, etc., I’m not a massive sports follower and the only sport I have a vague idea about in terms of what’s going on is football - cooking: I enjoy cooking Asian vegetarian and pescatarian dishes, though recently had to temporarily change my diet to include non-fish meat as well (only poultry),though would like to return to pescatarianism soon - Appearance: white European (Central Eastern European) - I prefer to be open about this as I got unmatched/ghosted a number of times when I told where I come from; height: 5ft 9inch/177 cm, weight: 66-68kg, body type: slim, complexion: very pale, eyes: green, hair colour: very dark brown/black, resting angry face as a bonus :P - Views: liberal with some mild social liberal inclinations, agnostic What I’m looking for: - Gender: Women only Some kind of a connection that exists in real life, open to anything really, I’m not going to say that I’m looking only for a serious relationship but I’m also happy to consider something more casual that could stay this way or develop into something more serious if there’s a will from both sides, open to anything really as long as you are a good communicator and are open to hanging out/meeting/spending time together more or less regularly. I’m not particularly experienced but I like to please. In summary - open to anything as long there is attraction and IRL connection. - About you (character): someone who accepts me for who I am (I’m not a massively outgoing person who is very social), is a good communicator and conversationalist and is willing to sometimes spend time together (from my experience, not looking for people who are almost constantly busy and have excuses for every day of the month), you should share some of the interests or just be keen to learn about new things (hopefully I can also learn something from you or you can teach me something!), honesty and open-mindedness are characteristics that I value as well, you shouldn’t also be conservative as probably this wouldn’t work. - About you (appearance): hard to say as personally I tend to develop attraction to the other person over time, but generally anything from slim to average—>curvy, definitely not obese/severely overweight. I guess size/body type is the only major red flag. If you are interested please feel free to send me a message. As I’ve said I’m only interested in IRL meetings at some point in a not too distant future (week-two, maybe three). Rather than just saying “Hi. How are you?”, just send me a brief intro and we can start from there. Happy to share pics later. Thanks :)

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