Posted by AnubisUK | archived on Oct. 25, 2023, 7:57 a.m.
Hi LR4R, hope you're all well. Over my time posting on Reddit, I've been extremely fortunate to have had some wonderful experiences and I'm very keen for that to continue. As I was thinking about it, I came to understand what my ideal meetup is actually like from start to finish, so thought I'd share it here in some detail for any woman who likes the idea of it themselves and would be interested in pursuing it, either as a one off, or a FWB situation (the latter being my preference). As always, your safety and comfort would be my number 1 priority and at no point would there be any expectations or assumptions on my part. Consent is everything and it can be withdrawn at any point without fear of negative reactions. I'm 42yo, 6'3" and originally from Glasgow (still have the accent if that's something you're into). [This](https://ibb.co/9txYY1z) is a fairly recent SFW picture of me, and there is a shirtless pic of me [here](https://ibb.co/4StGH0q), which I took last weekend. When it comes to being with someone, the sensual side of things is far more important to me than the sexual. This isn't to say I don't enjoy the sexual aspect of it, but a large number of the meetups I've had haven't ended in actual sex and I've been perfectly happy with that since I've had the chance to try and please while, at the same time, completely indulge my senses, particularly that of touch. My hands seem to be pretty insatiable and I love nothing more than to stroke, squeeze or caress a woman's body, especially when things have gotten heated and passions are at their highest. For me, a good meetup starts before the actual initial meetup - getting to know each other through the chat here, engaging with each other, flirting and sharing what we're both looking for. I love to share pictures at this point, although I don't mean anything explicit - I don't send explicit pictures and wouldn't ask that of you. But pictures that are teasing and risqué and fire the imagination are fantastic and really help with the other thing I love to do which is describe in very fine detail just what I'd want to do to you, should we decide to get together. I'd use a mixture of written messages and voice notes, both of which have been received really positively in the past. If we did decide to meet up it would be in public at first, and if we hit it off that's where the kissing and touching usually begins. Nothing too extreme of course, since there would be others around, but enough to stoke the fires that bit more. If we're both comfortable doing so, we could then go back to mine or yours and, now that we're no longer constrained by the prying eyes of the public, our kisses become deeper and more passionate, the eye contact more intense, with our hands wandering to places they couldn't possibly before. Touching and being touched through clothes is something that I just cannot get enough of. At this point, although passions would be reaching fever pitch, I wouldn't want us to tear each other's clothes off, but remove them piece by piece - with my hands, lips, or tongue taking the time to explore what's revealed. And this is where the sensual aspect really kicks in for me. With you now on the bed naked, I'd spend an age exploring every inch of your form until you're absolutely aching for me to go down on you which I would gladly do, first with my tongue, and then with my fingers. Getting you to cum would be extremely important to me, and I would take as long as it took to get you to orgasm, hopefully over and over. By the end of it all, I'd want you to have cum so hard that you're sprawled on the bed, short of breath, trying to collect yourself, while I have my arms wrapped around you, skin against skin, breathing against each other. If that's where things end I'm more than happy with that, but if you wanted to do anything further, I'd be open to that. If that sounds like something you'd be interested in just send me a message or talk to me in the chat and we can go from there. PLEASE make sure to include a picture with your opening message - a no face SFW picture like mine is absolutely fine to begin with. Another aspect of a really successful meetup I've found is good communication. I treat online conversation the same way I treat real life conversation, which is to find out about someone and take a genuine interest in them, and would hope for the same back. There's nothing worse than trying to arrange a meetup with someone standoffish because it's like pulling teeth and I just lose interest so quickly. Finally, what I've talked about in my post is the vanilla side of things, but I've had lots of fun exploring some of my kinks as well and I'd be more than happy to do some of that if you were interested. [This](https://www.reddit.com/r/BDSMpersonals/comments/16x4okg/42_m4f_london_uk_tall_scottish_male_looking_to/) is my most recent post in the bdsm sub so Just let me know in any messages you send if it's something you'd like to explore and we can discuss them and set boundaries etc. Hope to hear from you soon and look after yourselves :)