33 [M4F] #Central Looking for benefits with friendship or friendship with benefits launch

Posted by Disappearing_Cat | archived on June 6, 2023, 8 p.m. | located in Shoham, IL

Title might be self explanatory, but ill elaborate. Im writing this post with the intent of being as honest and transparent as I can be - as a person im trying to be as authentic as possible. We all know why we visit these NSFW subreddits, and for which purpose - no need to try to paint it otherwise. Apart from the obvious sexual aspect of the encounters I look for on here, I actually would like to meet with like minded people to connect and form an online friendship - where we can both feel comfortable talking about any subject whether its clean or not. My hope is to form a place where two adults can have a conversation and open up just about anything without the fear of being judged, as long as its done in a respectful way and making sure we are both comfortable with any subject. We can talk about our daily lives, struggles, experiences, passions, interests, secrets and what not...or just rant to each other if we had a bad day. Im pretty good as a listener as I learned over time to just be there and listen to what the other has to say before trying to offer a solution - sometime people just want to be heard. This brings me to my next disclaimer: what am i looking for on the sexual aspect. Well, honestly I feel I dont have an outlet to my sexual thoughts and feelings in real life. A lot of time it feels like I have no one to talk to that I trust and feel comfortable with to open up this aspect of myself and share it with someone - thats where you come in. I really hope I can find someone to open to and share myself with, with all that entails from that. Things I had in mind that we can do together - although im open to any other ideas you have in mind: - Share our sexual experiences - Sext - Share our kinks/turn ons/desires/fetishes - im sure we can find something in common. - Share our favorite porn and NSFW subreddits - Try to explore new kinks together, open each other up to new experiences and testing our limits. - Edge together I dont have any preference for looks or age, and be able to hold a conversation. If you read this far and interested to talk more and get to know each other, feel free to send me a chat or private message. Optional - In your opening message try to introduce yourself in a more detailed way as I really want to get to know you, how you operate, what makes you tick and what turns on and generally what you expect from this connection/arrangement. Hope to hear from you all soon!